“It’s pretty hard to tell what does bring happiness. Poverty and wealth have both failed.” – Frank McKinney “Kin” Hubbard
African Safari: Ngorongoro to Tarangire
Our morning drive with Bilal took us on a paved road for a change. It seemed, what with no apparent traffic rules, more dangerous than driving among the lions and other wild beasts. Our destination was Tarangire National Park.
On the way we passed an overloaded bus – I never saw one that wasn’t – with a rhino painted on its rear and the message: “More money, more problems.” It started another one of those enlightening conversations with Bilal. I mentioned that while so many of the Africans we had seen had so very little, they seemed happy.
“Why do you say that,” he asked.
“Because they seem so cheerful and always have big smiles on their faces,” I replied.
“Just because they smile a lot doesn’t mean happiness,” he said. His words gave me a lot to think about, and has changed the way I look at people.

I think of bananas as coming from South America, but Tanzania, Kim and I learned, has its share, too. -- Photo by Kim Perrin
A bit later, in one of the small towns we passed through, Bilal stopped and bought some bananas from a roadside business run by women. “I like to support the women,” he said, “because they are often mistreated by men.”
The bananas were good, and Bilal’s words had yet again endeared him to Kim and I.
Then our attention was drawn to a couple of baboons making it in the middle of the road. We all laughed.
As I’ve aged, I’ve begun to think of laughter as a great indicator of happiness, especially the ability to laugh at oneself. But even today, four years after my conversation with Bilal, his words about smiles and happiness not meaning the same thing still lingers with me.
We stopped for lunch at a small tented lodge, where I had time to do a bit of birdwatching. The morning turned up four new life birds, including a yellow-collared lovebird that kept us company while we ate in a rustic dining room open to the outdoors.
Bilal then picked us up for an afternoon game drive in Tarangire National Park, where we would have our most frightening encounter with wildlife of our entire safari. Stay tuned and I’ll tell you all about it next.
Bird Log of New Lifers: White-naped raven, pygmy falcon, white-bellied canary, blue=spotted wood dove, yellow=collared lovebird, Aug. 27, 2007, drive from the Ngorongoro Crater to Tarangire National Park.
I really like this chapter, Pat. Like you, I cannot get Bilal’s words out of my head.
I want to use it as my FB status if that is ok. It is also going in my favorite quotes journal.
PS I started my blog on my birthday. Here is the link-I hope it works.
http://nancilynnmyblog.wordpress.com
Nancilynn, did I answer this. I’m way behind on e-mail. Of course it’s Ok. And thanks for the kind words. It’s good to hear from you.
Keep writing … Pat Bean https://patbean.wordpress.com
Okay, you have me sitting on the edge of my seat until the next episode!!
I love these words by Bilal (as well as your chose quote of the day). They are going in my “quote” journal.
Thanks Deborah. I hope today’s episode was worth waiting for. And yes, I love the quote, too, and it’s already in my journal
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